SUPPORTING SOUTH ASIAN WOMEN TO OVERCOME CULTURAL PRESSURES OF PEOPLE PLEASING AND BUILD THEIR ULTIMATE INNER CONFIDENCE
Through Sovereign Self, you'll be supported step-by-step to set healthy boundaries, regulate your emotions, increase your self-esteem, and build deep inner confidence - without losing your cultural identity. This journey unfolds over 4 months, with multiple formats to meet your needs:
🔸 1:1 Premium Mentorship
🔸 Group Immersion Experience
🔸 Self-Led Transformation Pathway
No matter your starting point, Sovereign Self is your path to emotional freedom and empowered living.
Powered by The Conscious Confidence Framework™
Through Sovereign Self, you'll be supported step-by-step to set healthy boundaries, regulate your emotions, increase your self-esteem, and build deep inner confidence - without losing your cultural identity. This journey unfolds over 4 months, with multiple formats to meet your needs:
🔸 1:1 Premium Mentorship
🔸 Group Immersion Experience
🔸 Self-Led Transformation Pathway
No matter your starting point, Sovereign Self is your path to emotional freedom and empowered living.
YOU WANT TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST AND SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES...
BUT PERHAPS YOU'RE AFRAID OF APPEARING 'SELFISH' OR FEEL YOU'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH...
MAYBE, YOU'RE WONDERING IF IT'S EVEN POSSIBLE FOR YOU...
YOU WANT TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST AND SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES...
BUT PERHAPS YOU'RE AFRAID OF APPEARING 'SELFISH' OR FEEL YOU'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH...
MAYBE, YOU'RE WONDERING IF IT'S EVEN POSSIBLE FOR YOU...
I'VE WORKED WITH HUNDREDS OF PROFESSIONAL WOMEN WHO HAVE FELT LIKE THEY WEREN'T GOOD ENOUGH OR WORTHY OF CHOOSING THEMSELVES...
My clients are high-performing women with great careers and strong support systems, yet struggling to feel like they were doing enough and left feeling exhausted! Despite doing so much for others, they often feel like it's never enough. Boundaries are blurry, and saying ‘no’ feels impossible. They put others first at the expense of their own wellbeing, leaving them burnt out, frustrated, and disconnected from their confidence and purpose.
My mission with Sovereign Self is to cut through the confusion around healing from people pleasing and to offer clear, culturally sensitive support and tools that create lasting transformation.
This program is here to walk alongside you, every step of the way, so you feel empowered to build the life you truly want - on your terms.
I'VE WORKED WITH HUNDREDS OF PROFESSIONAL WOMEN WHO HAVE FELT LIKE THEY WEREN'T GOOD ENOUGH OR WORTHY OF CHOOSING THEMSELVES...
My clients are high-performing women with great careers and strong support systems, yet struggling to feel like they were doing enough and left feeling exhausted! Despite doing so much for others, they often feel like it's never enough. Boundaries are blurry, and saying ‘no’ feels impossible. They put others first at the expense of their own wellbeing, leaving them burnt out, frustrated, and disconnected from their confidence and purpose.
My mission with Sovereign Self is to cut through the confusion around healing from people pleasing and to offer clear, culturally sensitive support and tools that create lasting transformation.
This program is here to walk alongside you, every step of the way, so you feel empowered to build the life you truly want - on your terms.
MY CLIENTS ARE LIVING PROOF, AND YOU CAN BE TOO.
MY CLIENTS ARE LIVING PROOF, AND YOU CAN BE TOO.
"Belinda is truly an incredible therapist.
I honestly thought that I couldn't find the right person to help me, but she completely changed my opinion”
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING...
"My sessions with Belinda have been truly pivotal in helping me navigate difficult times and gain a deeper understanding of myself. She is incredibly skilled at what she does...The insights and tools she provided will stay with me for the rest of my journey"
"I'm so grateful to Belinda and would recommend her to anyone who is looking for a therapist who truly wants to help. Thank you for everything Belinda!"
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING...
"Belinda is truly an incredible therapist.
I honestly thought that I couldn't find the right person to help me, but she completely changed my opinion"
“Belinda is empathetic, professional, personable, and determined to help - all the ideal qualities of an excellent therapist"
"[Belinda] offers a safe, judgement free space where she calmly navigates the conversation"
HOW? THE ANSWER IS EASY:
Sovereign Self™ is my signature 4-month transformation program, built on The Conscious Confidence Framework™ - a culturally sensitive, evidence-based approach that blends psychotherapy, coaching, and energy psychology. Through this journey, you’ll learn how to regulate your emotions, trust yourself fully, and set healthy boundaries - without compromising your cultural identity. You'll begin to shift your thinking, reclaim your voice, and live more authentically, with long-term, sustainable change in mind.
You’ll be deeply supported throughout the 4 months (and beyond) as you transform emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, and even financially - with tools to last you a lifetime.
HOW? THE ANSWER IS EASY:
Sovereign Self™ is my signature 4-month transformation program, built on The Conscious Confidence Framework™ - a culturally sensitive, evidence-based approach that blends psychotherapy, coaching, and energy psychology. Through this journey, you’ll learn how to regulate your emotions, trust yourself fully, and set healthy boundaries - without compromising your cultural identity. You'll begin to shift your thinking, reclaim your voice, and live more authentically, with long-term, sustainable change in mind.
You’ll be deeply supported throughout the 4 months (and beyond) as you transform emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, and even financially - with tools to last you a lifetime.
49% OF ADULTS SELF-IDENTIFY AS PEOPLE PLEASERS
As of 2024, a search for 'Woman Of Colour People Pleasing' on Google returns a whopping 70 MILLION results! People-pleasing doesn’t just affect your mental health. It’s closely linked to chronic stress, which can contribute to physical health issues such as digestive problems (like IBS), sleep disturbances, immune suppression, and cardiovascular dysfunction.
THE GOOD NEWS? YOU DON'T HAVE TO STAY STUCK IN THIS CYCLE
Using The Conscious Confidence Framework™, I’ll help you uncover the root causes of these patterns and equip you with the tools to rebuild your confidence, set boundaries with clarity, and return to your most authentic self! This is a hands-on, supportive journey - and I’m fully committed to your success. All I ask is that you’re ready to show up for yourself, too.
49% OF ADULTS SELF-IDENTIFY AS PEOPLE PLEASERS
As of 2024, a search for 'Woman Of Colour People Pleasing' on Google returns a whopping 70 MILLION results! People-pleasing doesn’t just affect your mental health. It’s closely linked to chronic stress, which can contribute to physical health issues such as digestive problems (like IBS), sleep disturbances, immune suppression, and cardiovascular dysfunction.
THE GOOD NEWS? YOU DON'T HAVE TO STAY STUCK IN THIS CYCLE
Using The Conscious Confidence Framework™, I’ll help you uncover the root causes of these patterns and equip you with the tools to rebuild your confidence, set boundaries with clarity, and return to your most authentic self! This is a hands-on, supportive journey - and I’m fully committed to your success. All I ask is that you’re ready to show up for yourself, too.
AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY ONLY LIMITS YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH
Ignoring, denying or rationalising people pleasing behaviour may feel protective in the short term - but in the long run, it reinforces burnout, resentment, and emotional disconnection. Perfectionism creates unrealistic expectations. Suppressed boundaries and emotions often show up as stress, anxiety, or even physical illness.
SOVEREIGN SELF™ OFFERS YOU A WAY TO OVERCOME ALL OF THE ABOVE
Using proven, evidence-based tools from psychology, coaching, and energy work - woven together through The Conscious Confidence Framework™ - you’ll be guided through a culturally sensitive, transformational process to help you release what no longer serves you and embody the life you're truly here to live.
AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY ONLY LIMITS YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH
Ignoring, denying or rationalising people pleasing behaviour may feel protective in the short term - but in the long run, it reinforces burnout, resentment, and emotional disconnection. Perfectionism creates unrealistic expectations. Suppressed boundaries and emotions often show up as stress, anxiety, or even physical illness.
SOVEREIGN SELF™ OFFERS YOU A WAY TO OVERCOME ALL OF THE ABOVE
Using proven, evidence-based tools from psychology, coaching, and energy work - woven together through The Conscious Confidence Framework™ - you’ll be guided through a culturally sensitive, transformational process to help you release what no longer serves you and embody the life you're truly here to live.
PERFECTIONISM & AVOIDANCE LEADS TO...
1. YOU NEVER QUITE FEEL GOOD ENOUGH
You’re constantly trying to meet everyone else’s expectations - but it never feels like enough. You start questioning yourself:“What’s wrong with me?” ,“Maybe it’s my fault" ,“If I could just do X, be Y, or finally reach Z... then I’d be worthy.”
2. YOU FEEL OVERWHELMED AND STUCK
You’re pulled in every direction but going nowhere. You begin to wonder:“Is this worth it?”, “Will it ever get better?”, “How did I get here?”
And maybe most importantly:“What would it look like to try something new?”
PERFECTIONISM & AVOIDANCE LEADS TO...
1. YOU NEVER QUITE FEEL GOOD ENOUGH
You’re constantly trying to meet everyone else’s expectations - but it never feels like enough. You start questioning yourself:“What’s wrong with me?” ,“Maybe it’s my fault" ,“If I could just do X, be Y, or finally reach Z... then I’d be worthy.”
2. YOU FEEL OVERWHELMED AND STUCK
You’re pulled in every direction but going nowhere. You begin to wonder:“Is this worth it?”, “Will it ever get better?”, “How did I get here?”
And maybe most importantly:“What would it look like to try something new?”
IN JUST 4 MONTHS, YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE:
TO BUILD YOUR ULTIMATE INNER CONFIDENCE
Learning how to set healthy boundaries can improve your relationship with yourself and with others. Leading to better communication, self-respect and inviting balance into your life.
& FEEL EMPOWERED TO LIVE AUTHENTICALLY
Our childhood and past experiences can influence our confidence and self-talk. We will explore what impacts your self-esteem, address and break through old patterns of thinking.
TO INCREASE RESILIENCE & SELF-AWARENESS
Our thoughts and behaviours influence our emotions and how we feel. By learning how to regulate your emotions, you will feel less stressed, overwhelmed and more in control of your life.
WHEN THESE 3 ELEMENTS ARE BROUGHT TOGETHER, YOU WILL HAVE ALL OF THE TOOLS & SKILLS YOU NEED TO FLOURISH AND LIVE YOUR AUTHENTIC LIFE.
IN JUST 4 MONTHS, YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE:
TO BUILD YOUR ULTIMATE INNER CONFIDENCE
Setting healthy boundaries improves your relationship with yourself and with others. Leading to better communication, self-respect and inviting balance into your life.
& FEEL EMPOWERED TO LIVE AUTHENTICALLY
Our childhood and past experiences can influence our confidence and self-talk. We will explore what impacts your self-esteem, address and break through old patterns of thinking.
TO INCREASE RESILIENCE & SELF-AWARENESS
Our thoughts and behaviours influence our emotions and how we feel. By learning how to regulate your emotions, you will feel less stressed, overwhelmed and more in control of your life.
WHEN THESE 3 ELEMENTS ARE BROUGHT TOGETHER, YOU WILL HAVE ALL OF THE TOOLS & SKILLS YOU NEED TO FLOURISH AND LIVE YOUR AUTHENTIC LIFE.
My mission is to empower women, like you, to break through cultural pressures of people pleasing, to support them in rediscovering their worth and to live a life that feels authentic and fulfilling to them.
My experience spans 15+ years from when I first volunteered for mental health charities (more recently volunteering with Mind and Samaritans), to taking a leadership role with a leading UK Insurer as their Head of Mental Health & Wellbeing, and on a 1:1 basis in my private practice. I understand change well and the pressures of working within demanding corporate environments. Before retraining, I spent 10 years within the fields of law and financial services working my way up into leadership positions.
My clients are kind, resilient, empathetic, passionate and more. They care greatly about those around them and acknowledge that their own needs are important too. They came to me believing the old ways no longer worked for them and have experienced transformations in their mental & emotional resilience, relationships, physical health, communication, confidence and self-awareness. In short... my clients are thriving.
My mission is to empower women, like you, to break through cultural pressures of people pleasing, to support them in rediscovering their worth and to live a life that feels authentic and fulfilling to them.
My experience spans 15+ years from when I first volunteered for mental health charities (more recently volunteering with Mind and Samaritans), to taking a leadership role with a leading UK Insurer as their Head of Mental Health & Wellbeing, and on a 1:1 basis in my private practice. I understand change well and the pressures of working within demanding corporate environments. Before retraining, I spent 10 years within the fields of law and financial services working my way up into leadership positions.
My clients are kind, resilient, empathetic, passionate and more. They care greatly about those around them and acknowledge that their own needs are important too. They came to me believing the old ways no longer worked for them and have experienced transformations in their mental & emotional resilience, relationships, physical health, communication, confidence and self-awareness. In short... my clients are thriving.
"Belinda is wonderful, knowledgeable, professional and a fantastic person to soundboard with and I can’t recommend her enough”
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING...
"Belinda's helped me through one of the lowest points in my life and I am so grateful for her guidance and support"
"I'm so grateful to Belinda and would recommend her to anyone who is looking for a therapist who truly wants to help!"
WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING...
"Belinda is wonderful, knowledgeable, professional and a fantastic person to soundboard with and I can’t recommend her enough”
"[Belinda's] helped me through one of the lowest points in my life and I am so grateful for her guidance and support"
"I'm so grateful to Belinda and would recommend her to anyone who is looking for a therapist who truly wants to help!"
And the truth of it is, you can't! It's an impossible task. So why not try a new way of living?
By building your own identity outside of cultural norms or expectations.
By living authentically in accordance to your own values - rather than how you think you should live.
By putting your own emotional wellbeing and needs first.
I understand how difficult and challenging this may sound. Starting something new is scary. But you don't have to do it alone.
And the truth of it is, you can't! It's an impossible task. So why not try a new way of living?
By building your own identity outside of cultural norms or expectations.
By living authentically in accordance to your own values - rather than how you think you should live.
By putting your own emotional wellbeing and needs first.
I understand how difficult and challenging this may sound. Starting something new is scary. But you don't have to do it alone.
The program is broken down into six parts over 4 months and delivered through an online portal filled with masterclasses, training videos, mindfulness audios, EFT sessions, and interactive workbooks.
You can join Sovereign Self™ in the way that suits you best -through personalised 1:1 mentoring, a supportive group journey, or a flexible self-led path.
Each format offers powerful tools for long-term change, all guided by The Conscious Confidence Framework™.
The program is broken down into six parts over 4 months and delivered through an online portal filled with masterclasses, training videos, mindfulness audios, EFT sessions, and interactive workbooks.
You can join Sovereign Self™ in the way that suits you best -through personalised 1:1 mentoring, a supportive group journey, or a flexible self-led path.
Each format offers powerful tools for long-term change, all guided by The Conscious Confidence Framework™.
...EVEN IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T HAVE THE TIME TO COMMIT.
I get it, sometimes life happens! Sovereign Self has been designed to fit around busy lives and schedules. Space is built in within the program so you have time to complete the different aspects at your own pace within the 4 months.
...EVEN IF YOU'VE NEVER TRIED THERAPY OR COACHING BEFORE.
You don't need to have any experience of therapy or coaching before joining Sovereign Self. You're in the right place. You will be deeply supported throughout (& beyond) the program.
...EVEN IF YOU FEEL 'GUILTY' OR 'SELFISH' FOR JOINING THE PROGRAM.
I know, investing and putting yourself first is challenging. You're so used to putting others' needs first. Sovereign Self is designed to help you to explore these feelings and support you in finding healthier patterns of thinking. You are worth it!
AND... EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN'T DO IT ALONE.
You don't have to! I will be here to guide and support you every step of the way. I'm deeply committed to your success, and all I ask is that you are too. I'm also here to remind you that you are stronger and more resilient than you think. You've got this.
NO MATTER WHERE YOU'RE STARTING FROM, BY THE END OF SOVEREIGN SELF™ YOU WILL HAVE THE TOOLS YOU NEED TO BUILD BELIEF & TRUST IN YOURSELF TO GAIN YOUR ULTIMATE INNER CONFIDENCE & OVERCOME PEOPLE PLEASING FOR GOOD.
...EVEN IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T HAVE THE TIME TO COMMIT.
I get it, sometimes life happens! Sovereign Self has been designed to fit around busy lives and schedules. Space is built in within the program so you have time to complete the different aspects at your own pace within the 4 months.
...EVEN IF YOU'VE NEVER TRIED THERAPY OR COACHING BEFORE.
You don't need to have any experience of therapy or coaching before joining Sovereign Self. You're in the right place. You will be deeply supported throughout (& beyond) the program.
...EVEN IF YOU FEEL 'GUILTY' OR 'SELFISH' FOR JOINING THE PROGRAM.
I know, investing and putting yourself first is challenging. You're so used to putting others' needs first. Sovereign Self is designed to help you to explore these feelings and support you in finding healthier patterns of thinking. You are worth it!
AND... EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN'T DO IT ALONE.
You don't have to! I will be here to guide and support you every step of the way. I'm deeply committed to your success, and all I ask is that you are too. I'm also here to remind you that you are stronger and more resilient than you think. You've got this.
NO MATTER WHERE YOU'RE STARTING FROM, BY THE END OF SOVEREIGN SELF™ YOU WILL HAVE THE TOOLS YOU NEED TO BUILD BELIEF & TRUST IN YOURSELF TO GAIN YOUR ULTIMATE INNER CONFIDENCE & OVERCOME PEOPLE PLEASING FOR GOOD.
Best for flexible, independent learning
THE 3 KEY PILLARS IN SOVEREIGN SELF :
Explore the root of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours through therapeutic tools grounded in psychology and emotional healing.
Integrating coaching methods to complement therapy with a proactive approach. Supporting you in making effective, long-term changes that you can use time and again.
Utilising mindfulness, journalling and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) to complement more traditional therapeutic and coaching techniques.
I'LL BE WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.
For 1:1 and Group: We’ll work together to explore what’s going on for you. I will support you in managing difficult and challenging feelings. Re-discovering your worth, overcome feeling 'stuck' & help you build an inner resilience.
When you join Sovereign Self, you will receive access to a portal with your Masterclasses, training videos, mindfulness audios, EFT videos, interactive workbooks, recommended readings, podcasts and content.
For 1:1 and Group: Join the dedicated private community where you will be connected to like-minded women. This channel aims to provide a sense of community, accountability, support and for any questions between sessions.
THE 3 KEY PILLARS IN
SOVEREIGN SELF™:
Explore the root of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours through therapeutic tools grounded in psychology and emotional healing.
Integrating coaching methods to complement therapy with a proactive approach. Supporting you in making effective, long-term changes that you can use time and again.
Utilising mindfulness, journalling and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) to complement more traditional therapeutic and coaching techniques.
I'LL BE WITH YOU EVERY STEP OF THE WAY.
For 1:1 & Group: We’ll work together to explore what’s going on for you. I will support you in managing difficult and challenging feelings. Re-discovering your worth, overcome feeling 'stuck' & help you build an inner resilience.
When you join Sovereign Self, you will receive access to a portal with your Masterclasses, training videos, mindfulness audios, EFT videos, interactive workbooks, recommended readings, podcasts and content.
For 1:1 and Group: Join the dedicated private community where you will be connected to like-minded women. This channel aims to provide a sense of community, accountability, support and for any questions between sessions.
CULTURALLY ATTUNED & DEEPLY CONSIDERED
Sovereign Self™ was designed with South Asian women and those from collectivist cultures in mind - because I know what it feels like to constantly explain, translate, or hide parts of your identity.
This program honours your lived experience and offers a space where your values, boundaries, and growth are respected. Whether you're joining 1:1, in a group, or on your own, you’ll feel seen, heard, and held.
This isn’t just another mindset course or surface-level coaching model. Sovereign Self™ is powered by The Conscious Confidence Framework™ - a holistic, evidence-based methodology that integrates therapy, coaching, and energy psychology. It addresses not only your thoughts and behaviours, but your emotional regulation, somatic patterns, and inner beliefs - so your transformation actually lasts.
SUPPORT THAT MEETS YOU WHERE YOU ARE
Whether you choose the self-led journey, group support, or personalised 1:1 mentoring, you'll have access to masterclasses, EFT videos, journaling prompts, and downloadable tools designed to help you build lasting self-trust. Plus, lifetime access to the program portal means you can revisit the material whenever you need a reset.
I CARE DEEPLY ABOUT YOUR SUCCESS
I am here to support you, celebrate your victories, and guide you as you navigate your unique path. I know firsthand how challenging this journey can feel, and how lonely it can be at times. That's why I'll be by your side at every step. I believe there is a transformative power within each woman, and I am here to help you see that power within yourself!
CULTURAL ATTUNED & DEEPLY CONSIDERED
Sovereign Self™ was designed with South Asian women and those from collectivist cultures in mind - because I know what it feels like to constantly explain, translate, or hide parts of your identity.
This program honours your lived experience and offers a space where your values, boundaries, and growth are respected. Whether you're joining 1:1, in a group, or on your own, you’ll feel seen, heard, and held.
This isn’t just another mindset course or surface-level coaching model. Sovereign Self™ is powered by The Conscious Confidence Framework™ - a holistic, evidence-based methodology that integrates therapy, coaching, and energy psychology. It addresses not only your thoughts and behaviours, but your emotional regulation, somatic patterns, and inner beliefs - so your transformation actually lasts.
SUPPORT THAT MEETS YOU WHERE YOU ARE
Whether you choose the self-led journey, group support, or personalised 1:1 Mentoring, you'll have access to masterclasses, EFT videos, journaling prompts, and downloadable tools designed to help you build lasting self-trust. Plus, lifetime access to the program portal means you can revisit the material whenever you need a reset.
I CARE DEEPLY ABOUT YOUR SUCCESS
I am here to support you, celebrate your victories, and guide you as you navigate your unique path. I know firsthand how challenging this journey can feel, and how lonely it can be at times. That's why I'll be by your side at every step. I believe there is a transformative power within each woman, and I am here to help you see that power within yourself!
"SESSIONS HAVE REALLY HELPED ME AND I AM VERY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR SUPPORT..."
"...I really appreciated your encouragement to push myself to face challenges (however small) that ultimately I overcame and felt great about afterwards. You have a really kind, yet firm(!) way of doing this which I think is a fantastic attribute...[S]essions have really helped me on this journey and have given me tools to keep pressing forward. I am very grateful to you for your help and support" — MP
Taking that first step toward prioritising your wellbeing is a radical act of self-care. It’s completely normal to feel nervous (and even a little excited). Your feelings are valid.
I’ve been where you are. I was raised in a traditional South Asian household in the north of England, where gender roles were the norm and people-pleasing was a way of life. Like many, I learned to measure my worth by what I could do for others.
This mindset led me down a path of constantly needing to be and do more, using achievements or what I could for others to justify my self-worth. As a result, I developed unhealthy relationships with myself and others, ending in a divorce, burnout, anxiety, depression and with a "successful" career leaving me feeling unfulfilled. Safe to say – that definitely did not please anyone... Especially not me.
I’m here to tell you there is a different way to live. One that honours your cultural roots without compromising your identity. A way where you choose to live for yourself.
Sometimes it takes someone else to hold up a mirror so you can see it for yourself. I am here with that mirror. Give yourself permission to receive support, rewrite your story and change your life.
"SESSIONS HAVE REALLY HELPED ME AND I AM VERY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR SUPPORT..."
"...I really appreciated your encouragement to push myself to face challenges (however small) that ultimately I overcame and felt great about afterwards. You have a really kind, yet firm(!) way of doing this which I think is a fantastic attribute...[S]essions have really helped me on this journey and have given me tools to keep pressing forward. I am very grateful to you for your help and support"
— MP
Taking that first step toward prioritising your wellbeing is a radical act of self-care. It’s completely normal to feel nervous (and even a little excited). Your feelings are valid.
I’ve been where you are. I was raised in a traditional South Asian household in the north of England, where gender roles were the norm and people-pleasing was a way of life. Like many, I learned to measure my worth by what I could do for others.
This mindset led me down a path of constantly needing to be and do more, using achievements or what I could for others to justify my self-worth. As a result, I developed unhealthy relationships with myself and others, ending in a divorce, burnout, anxiety, depression and with a "successful" career leaving me feeling unfulfilled. Safe to say – that definitely did not please anyone... Especially not me.
I’m here to tell you there is a different way to live. One that honours your cultural roots without compromising your identity. A way where you choose to live for yourself.
Sometimes it takes someone else to hold up a mirror so you can see it for yourself. I am here with that mirror. Give yourself permission to receive support, rewrite your story and change your life.
You wake up 4 months from now. Imagine getting up each morning with a renewed sense of purpose and clarity. The weight of others’ expectations has lifted. Each morning brings fresh space for joy, growth, and living in alignment with your values.
Your communication feels more grounded. You understand yourself, and others, more deeply. The urge to please or seek external validation no longer runs the show. You choose to trust in yourself.
In this future, self-compassion becomes your default. You meet yourself with kindness. You embrace your imperfections as part of your power. Your inner dialogue softens, and your mindset begins to lift you forward.
The future is a blank canvas awaiting the vibrant strokes of your personal and emotional evolution.
For a limited time, I'm offering a special rate for International Women's Month, making it more accessible for everyone eager to embark on their transformational journey. You will also receive a personalised wellness journal from Papier in the post (for a limited time and available in the UK only).
You wake up 4 months from now. Imagine getting up each morning with a renewed sense of purpose and clarity. The weight of others’ expectations has lifted. Each morning brings fresh space for joy, growth, and living in alignment with your values.
Your communication feels more grounded. You understand yourself, and others, more deeply. The urge to please or seek external validation no longer runs the show. You choose to trust in yourself.
In this future, self-compassion becomes your default. You meet yourself with kindness. You embrace your imperfections as part of your power. Your inner dialogue softens, and your mindset begins to lift you forward.
The future is a blank canvas awaiting the vibrant strokes of your personal and emotional evolution.
WELCOME TO YOUR NEW NORMAL.
For a limited time, I'm offering a special rate for International Women's Month, making it more accessible for everyone eager to embark on their transformational journey. You will also receive a personalised wellness journal from Papier in the post (for a limited time and available in the UK only).
Unlike shorter 6–8 week programs that can feel rushed or overwhelming, Sovereign Self™ is intentionally paced over 4 months to support meaningful, lasting change - without taking over your life.
I recommend setting aside around 4–5 hours per week (that’s less than an hour a day) to engage with the materials and complete reflective practices or tasks. Some weeks may require more time, others less - it’s designed to be flexible and supportive.
The program is structured into six parts, with a mix of short training videos, educational content, and integration tasks. If you're in the 1:1 or group format, you'll also have time between coaching sessions to deepen your learning and begin applying the tools in real life.
Sovereign Self™ was created with cultural sensitivity in mind - particularly for South Asian women and those from collectivist cultures who may experience unique pressures around people-pleasing, identity, and boundaries.
That said, the program is open to all women who resonate with the message, values, and healing approach. If you're drawn to this work, you are welcome here.
Still unsure? Feel free to email me with any questions.
Absolutely! You can choose to pay in 4 monthly instalments, making the investment more accessible while receiving the full support of the program.
This is a difficult question to answer without knowing more about your specific situation and what you would like to work through.
Please book a free discovery call or drop me an email to help me understand more about your situation and what level of support would best suit your individual needs.
Absolutely! It's common to feel hesitant when investing in yourself - especially if you're used to prioritising others or questioning your worth.
Your money mindset plays a big role in how you relate to investing, receiving, and self-value. This program has the potential to shift your entire inner world, so notice what thoughts or feelings arise as you consider that.
Nerves are normal. Change is unfamiliar. And transformation often requires us to let go of old patterns that once kept us safe.
That’s why Sovereign Self™ includes a bonus masterclass on money mindset - to help you explore your beliefs around self-investment, abundance, and self-worth in a compassionate and culturally aware way.
Trust yourself. You know when it’s time.
Once you have enrolled, you will be provided access to the program portal where you will find the training videos, interactive workbooks and resources.
IS THIS THERAPY OR COACHING?
Both!
I’ve drawn from fundamental elements of integrative therapy, coaching, and energy psychology to create The Conscious Confidence Framework™ - the foundation of Sovereign Self. This culturally informed framework weaves together therapeutic depth and practical transformation, offering a safe, inclusive, and empowering experience.
The therapeutic approaches I draw from include Transactional Analysis, Psychodynamic Therapy, CBT, Existential Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Mindfulness and EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique).
I’m a fully qualified therapist, counsellor, and coach - registered with the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP) and a member of their Coaching Division.
HOW ARE THE 1:1, GROUP & SELF-LED SESSIONS CONDUCTED?
All live sessions are held virtually to fit around your schedule - offering flexibility and ease wherever you are in the world.
Each format is designed to support deep transformation, guided by The Conscious Confidence Framework™.
WHAT IF I FEEL I NEED SUPPORT AFTER I COMPLETE SOVEREIGN SELF?
Each format offers tailored support after the program ends:
All participants also have the option to stay in the private community for continued connection and accountability (available for a small monthly fee - cancel anytime).
DO YOU OFFER REFUNDS?
I understand this is a challenging program for many reasons, and sometimes we can start off with the best of intentions, but life can get in the way. If after starting Sovereign Self™ you don't feel ready to take on the commitment or are struggling to let go of the old and familiar, or for some other reason - just email me within 14 days of getting access to the program portal, along with your reason, and I will buy the program back from you. Any 1:1 sessions taken within this time may be deducted from the refund.
The program runs over 4 months and is designed to be spacious, not overwhelming.
Expect to spend around 4–5 hours per week engaging with content, reflection, and integration.
The pace is flexible, and support varies by format.
Sovereign Self™ was created with South Asian and collectivist cultural experiences in mind, but all women who resonate with this work are welcome.
Still unsure? Feel free to email me with any questions.
Absolutely! You can choose to pay in 4 monthly instalments, making the investment more accessible while receiving the full support of the program.
It depends on your specific needs. Please book a discovery call or email me so I can guide you to the right level of support.
Absolutely! Change is unfamiliar, and self-investment can bring up old patterns.
That’s why you’ll also receive a bonus masterclass on money mindset to support you in exploring worth, receiving, and abundance.
Trust yourself. You know when it’s time.
You’ll get access to a private online portal with training videos, guided practices, and downloadable workbooks.
IS THIS THERAPY OR COACHING?
It’s both. Sovereign Self™ is built on The Conscious Confidence Framework™, which integrates psychotherapy, coaching, and energy psychology. It’s safe, evidence-based, and culturally informed.
HOW ARE THE 1:1, GROUP & SELF-LED SESSIONS CONDUCTED?
All live sessions are held online.
WHAT IF I FEEL I NEED SUPPORT AFTER I COMPLETE SOVEREIGN SELF?
All formats include lifetime access to content and optional community support.
DO YOU OFFER REFUNDS?
Yes - I understands sometimes life happens.
If, within 14 days of accessing the portal, you feel the timing isn’t right, just email me with your reason and I’ll refund your investment.
If you’ve already had a 1:1 session during that time, its cost may be deducted.
I want you to feel safe investing in yourself - because you are worth it!
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Shed the expectations from family, culture, society or who you think you should be, and come home to who you truly are.
Have a question? Ask me via info@bewellwithbelinda.com
This work is inspired by the legacy of Lindy - who saw my truth before I did. I carry her wisdom with me into this next chapter.
Shed the expectations from family, culture, society or who you think you should be, and come home to who you truly are.
Have a question? Ask me via info@bewellwithbelinda.com
This work is inspired by the legacy of Lindy - who saw my truth before I did. I carry her wisdom with me into this next chapter.
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Registered office: 2nd Floor College House, 17 King Edwards Road, Ruislip, London, United Kingdom, HA4 7AE. Privacy Policy